And 2) even if their kids aren’t there, they know that at any given time it looks like an A-bomb went off in their house.And because first impressions are everything, and because their time is limited, they will want to wait until you won’t be scared right out the door.
Trust me, they could use a home away from home for the evening. Meet for the first time in a populated, public location – never in a private or remote location. Inform a friend or family member of your plans and when and where you're going.If you own a mobile phone, make sure you have it with you . Do not do anything that would impair your judgment and cause you to make a decision you could regret. Just in case things don't work out, you need to be in control of your own ride – even if you take a taxi.If this continues to happen, the child will be hurt as well as the father.Time for intimacy may be replaced by time spent together with the children. Remember: in actuality you’re dating the entire family, not just the guy.